Are we really living our life ?

We are here to live our life.My question to you is ;Are we really living our life ?  

Now let us talk in general ;Are we really living our life? I have asked this question from countless people and answers were like this ; yes,don't know,don't have time to think about,busy enough in routine work,fighting hard to address needs and wants etc. 

From above responses it became clear to me that majority of people are not living their life rather passing their life in addressing the needs and wants.With the advent of technology this has changed drastically;we have become digital nomads and added one more thing that is to showcase our life along-with addressing needs and wants.This activity of ours has silently given birth to ocean of depression among human beings.

Before advent of technology we were busy in addressing our needs and wants and were exposed to limited number of people in our circle,which was not putting severe impact on our brain and more or less we were living little bit of our life.

After the advent of technology;people have become thirsty about some of the new kinds of needs and wants and these are:likes,comments,wow etc. etc.and side effects of these new kinds of needs and wants are we have started getting our self lost in digital forest and developed a habit of comparing our life.We have entered this forest on our own wish but are not able to come out of it.

Let me substantiate;just count from now onward for how many time we switch on the data button on our mobile phones,tabs,Laptops and desktop to see how many friends and relatives are online,what they are doing online?Once we see all this;we start comparing our life with them,which in turn gives birth to depression.Once we are in the trap of to showcase our self better than others either by showcasing our best dress,best photograph,best location and sometimes photograph of airport for journey to best destination,and believe me the contentment earned by these activities do not last for even ten seconds.This way we deviate our self from our real goal of "To Live Our Life" and start chasing things which is not our real goal at all and some time take us deep into the ocean of depression.

From above please do not infer that we should not be technical savvy,we should be technical savvy and should use all the gadgets what others are using,we should move with the time but we should not compare our life because this is one of the dangerous activity.

Let me take you through the situation say suppose if you have planned your vacations along-with your friends to some lush green beautiful location which has got good beach too along with all the beautiful natural creatures.

You are at the location,what will you do there?

Option A

Will you see what your friends are wearing,what they are doing,are they looking good or you are looking better than them.If your friends are looking better than you,will you go to your room and change your dress immediately to prove that you are looking better than them.   

Option B

You will enjoy the location,beautiful beach,will try to interact with nature by sitting in the lap of nature and will enjoy natural creatures to make your vacations memorable up to the maximum so that you can feel you are living your life.You are the decision maker about your life.


Which option you will choose from above,I am sure you will choose Option B.If so than do it right now because that location you have planned for your vacation in the form of life along-with your friends is "EARTH".


Live your life instead of comparing,Use technical gadgets to live your life instead of being used by gadgets.Live your life with open heart,take deep breath and say thrice to your self by adding your name to it ,yes once again I am saying by adding your name to it like this as under

  "YourName,...You are the best,perfect and happy person".

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